Wedding Invitations - How do I Pick and What Should They Say?
You’re engaged. You’ve found your gown. You know where your
reception is. So what’s next? Trust me on this; it’s time to pick
out your wedding invitations and your inexpensive wedding favors! My suggestion is that
you do this VERY early. The reason being is that it is one of the
things that can fly under the radar and you’ll forget about. And it
can’t be forgotten about because then you will have no guests to
celebrate with you!
There are many beautiful wedding invitations to choose from. Some are
very simple. Some are more elaborate. I’ve consulted on weddings that
have spent thousands on wedding invitations and others that have
printed them on their home computer themselves. Depending on the
extravagance of your wedding and your theme, if price is an issue,
looking early is definitely in your best interest. Remember, satin
lined envelopes and those cute little ribbons add hundreds of dollars
to your budget.
Next step, what should the invitation say? There are so many versions
of invites, that it would take me all day to name them. Just remember
that you want it to sound like you and your future spouse and it would
be nice if it matched your edible wedding favors And sometimes you have to stray
from the norm with the sentiment on the invitation. For example, when
there is more than one parent or sets of parents or any other
combination, that has to be worded properly. As a very general rule,
the parents who are paying for the invitations (and usually a good
portion of the wedding) are the ones that should be issuing the
invitation. One way to accomplish both is:
Mr. and Mrs. John Doe
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Ms. Jane Jean Doe
to
Mr. Groom’s Full Name
Son of Mrs. New Husband’s Name (or) Son of Mr. and Mrs. New Husband’s Name
and Mr. Groom’s Father’s Name (or) and Mr. and Mrs. Groom’s Father’s Name
The last line is where you can add whomever you choose. This is nice,
clean and nobody gets offended or left out.
An invitation is a beautiful thing. It’s very personal and should
emulate what the wedding will be like and even the colors and wine wedding favors
that the bride and groom may go with for their special day. Don’t jump
at the first thing you see. Set aside a few hours and browse through
collections on the internet. There are many style to choose from that
will fit any budget. Just do it early. You want to sent them out up
to 10 weeks before the wedding date, especially if there will be out
of town guests.


Posted September 30, 2009
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